THE MAKING OF A SUPER HOT IRRESISTIBLE LOVER, CONT'D UNDERSTANDING THE BASICS......SERIES 1

Yeah, yesterday i wrote something on the physical part of romance and the knowledge needed. I also said something about romance being an art not science needing practical not theory. yesterday post was just a precursor to something more pristine.
To start with, anything emotional is psychological. Though love may include some physical activities but its root is psychological. The intercourse between psychological nature of love and the physical can never be separated, they always go together. Have you heard about a woman with a very healthy sexual life will always be a happy one.why? simple, the physical part of love robs on her psychological part.How they interact is a complex mechanism that cannot be fully explained with words. Well that's not where am headed i just want to emphasize the relationship between the two

Now the main thing, romance is an art that requires skill. is it entirely so? No, it is also science, science in the sense that every guy that the happiness of his BAE must be able to ANALYZE.. Analysis has to do with Pre-erotic stage and even the erotic and post erotic stage; the stage where the relationship is just starting to take form, the stage where love is the leading Horse while the Tortoise of trust is annoyingly far behind. At this stage you need keen observation and analytical lens is needed in every thing she does in other to get an insight into her psyche. Put simply, you need to know her beyond her physical appearance, the food she likes or the color of the clothe she likes to wear on a sunny day . You need to transcend her physical wall and enter her psychology
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Trust, not in terms of behavior but that one that makes her open up to you entirely is needed. Its one thing for a lady to trust you with her heart, it's another thing for her to trust you with her body. She may open her heart to you quite alright, but in that open heart you would still find some close doors. To have access to that door she must be prepared to trust you with her heart and body and to achieve that as a guy it takes a lot of understanding and scientific skills in other to have a comprehensive view of the intention of her every act,; so as to see beyond her actions.

some of the mistakes guys make is we quickly want a lady to trust us with her body to open that inner closed door to us when the outer is closed. Once the door to the heart which is the path way to other doors is closed access to others is impermeable.

it would seem both artistic and scientific skill is needed... yes. at the early stage of the relationship scientific skill is much more needed then after maturity a synergy of the two is required. To keep her happy you need artistic skills, to be able to paddle the canoe of the relationship successful away from the ocean storm scientific skill is needed..